In youth lies wonder And stamina, too Early mornings and ceaseless awe, Afternoons filled with all things new. Then shrieking, screaming, Senseless rage Injustice done unto others or themselves, Feeling the limits and confines of this stage. They need you, and me, and our parents as well Life is yet theirs to behold. I can't reach, he yells, That's not fair, she screams And we need only say, "You can when you're old." But such paradox is shared. Life is both great and troublesome. What they do not know Is the autonomy yet to come. When I do what I say and dream what I please And quest for the meaning of life. Life becomes choices, and many at that, Some full of peace while others bring strife. Life is a mystery, repeating itself With wonder, awe, strife and pain We're hardly different, them and us Thank god we're all the same.
I set parenting goals for myself. Not often, but every now and again, I realize something I don’t like and work change. This year, I wanted to stop yelling at the kids. It doesn’t happen often, but it happens sometimes and I wanted to make a change.
I read a lot of articles and watched videos from The Mom Psychologist, Dr. Paul Jenkins, and Supernanny to find my bearings. It seems like yelling is something everyone does, but I wanted to make a change. I don’t want to lean on it. I don’t want to hear myself doing it, nor do I want to feel “worked up” over trivial day-to-day stuff.
Today, I sat quietly to write and realized it has been a long time since I’ve yelled. So long that I can’t remember when it happened last.
So what’s changed?
I breathe more. I find quiet more. I take breaks. I swim in a new reality, where being a mom is not so much weighted by its long list of responsibilities as it floats in love and support. I think of Rabindranath Tagore when he wrote,
“When we take a pitcherful of water from the sea, it has its weight, but when we take a dip in the sea itself, a thousand pitcherfuls of water flow above our head, and we do not feel their weight.”
Today, I’ve found peace in noticing progress has happened in our little home. And I’m grateful.
What has brought you peace today? Share the peace!
I love finding peace at the local businesses in our neighborhood. There are some spaces where it is so easy to breathe, to find comfort, and to build community. Such is easily found at Good Life Organic Kitchen in Exton, PA.
Grey blue walls, wood flooring and warm smiles greet me upon every arrival. A robust menu offers a variety of locally sourced, healthy, delicious options for lunchers, brunchers and snackers alike. I like to bring my kiddos in for smoothies. They like The Hulk and The Berry Nutty. While the littles sip their sweet treats, I enjoy the camaraderie offered by the shop’s proprietors.
Abbey and Tom are visionaries. They love great food, great service, and creating great atmosphere.
“We opened in February, 2020. On the heels of a pandemic, we got a good, fun combo of insanity, energy, and inspiration,” Abbey says.
A little taste of insanity seems to be the magic ingredient for this standout cafe. When they opened their doors, Good Life Cafe became a special part of s changing community.
“We’re like a little beehive,” Abbey says.
In our neck of the woods, the pandemic meant lots of students took on cyber schooling. This made them prime employees for Good Life Organic Kitchen. Abbey saw the opportunity to work with young adults, grow their skillset, responsibilities, and potential.
“For lots of our employees, we were their first job,” Abbey says. “They’re learning how to do everything. Face-to-face communication, cooking the food, time management, everything. We want them to have a safe place where they know they’re loved.”
With a room full of peaceful people, warm, friendly communicators, and compassion, it’s no wonder I feel so peaceful here. Great food is icing on the cake. I like to sit in a small alcove toward the back with my noisy bunch of kids. There are beautiful wood benches and soft boho pillows at our backs. Another kiddo scribbles at a chalkboard placed strategically at their height, encouraging creativity and joy. To say this place is family friendly would be an understatement.
Here is a place where peace is as welcome as its patrons. I encourage you to give this spot a try! Talk to the folks who work there. Learn something new. Get inspired. Join in the Good Life. This shop won’t disappoint.
What brought you peace today? Share the peace!
Today was another one of those days with a million things to do. Welcome: Holiday Season. It’s days like these when I most need to remind myself to stop for air. Otherwise, I could run around all day without stopping.
Eww. No fun. Not my jam. Mama needs a break.
Today’s pause came in the form of a puzzle.
A few weeks ago, the family stopped at a yard sale. It’s a weird, quirky little activity we enjoy. Yard sales give us time to chat with someone in the community, learn about different neighborhoods, and seek small treasures our family might have use for.
On this occasion, we uncovered a pile of unopened puzzles, sitting undisturbed in their boxes.
This afternoon, after everyone pretty much refused my sunflower butter and jelly sandwiches (spit out on the plate, thanks LM1 for a visual reminder of your dislike), we sat down for one of our new-to-us puzzles.
LM3’s choice was about 100 pieces. Not too big, not too small. Baby bear style all the way.
And there was the peace for the day. My moment of calm. The quiet breath that reminded me how slowing down is always a benefit.
My little cherubs worked together excitedly, without whining or fussiness. There was stillness in our figuring of each puzzle piece. I was so grateful.
What about you? What brought you to your happy place today? Share the peace!
“It’s always the small pieces that make the big picture.”